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Information for those who are dating. How to remain pure in a relationship, and what to do when dating goes wrong.

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My heart is broken. I hoped to spend the rest of my life with my girlfriend.

Two nights ago, when …

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Well, Ralph I’m not so sure I have a sermon directly related to broken hearts, but I do have wonderful …

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Marrying Someone of a Different Faith

Recently, our church receptionist let me know about a Christian woman who was seeking advice regarding a situation where her grandson was planning to marry a Jehovah’s Witness. I took the time to write a letter to her, and as I was doing so, I thought this could be of help to others facing similar situations. Below are some notes I jotted down for the letter I sent to her. Point One: Marrying someone who is of a different faith is a very bad idea. If anyone thinks they can persuade their future spouse to become a Christian, they’re almost … Read More >

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I’m an average 22-year-old guy who’s still a virgin. In today’s society that’s often seen as “pretty pathetic.”

I …

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Well, John, I was so happy to receive your question because I think it’s wonderful that you’re living a pure …

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I haven’t made good choices in my relationships, but now I’ve met a wonderful Christian man I’d like to marry …

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Susan, throw that fish back into the lake, all right?

Here’s a man who says he loves you exclusively, and …

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I’ve been dating a wonderful Christian woman.

I’m in love with her, but she still seems to be in love …

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Well Christopher, let me speak to you very clearly and plainly and say that you’re not ready to marry this …

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I don’t think I can forgive the men who’ve taken advantage of me.

My last experience was with a man …

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Thank you, Deborah, for feeling free to share your pain with me.

Sadly—this is important for you to know—many men …

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Our son is being falsely accused of improper conduct toward a teenage girl—the daughter of one of our best friends …

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Well, my dear friends, thank you so much for asking that question. Conflict is always difficult to deal with, and …

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I’ve been dating a man who’s had previous sexual relationships. We’re happy together, and I’d really like to marry him …

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Well Ruth, from my heart to yours, you have a right to have doubts. If he hasn’t been totally honest …

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I’m dating and would like to marry a man whom I’ve known for many years.

We both have a lot …

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Arlene, thank you so much for writing to me. And I need to speak to you very plainly because I …

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Our young adult daughter is dating a professed Christian man who goes to church.

He’s involved with the youth ministry …

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Steven, first of all, thank you so much for writing. My heart goes out to you because Rebecca and I …

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